Love means surrender.
When a person is in love his or her desires and attachments are centred in the loved person and he desires to love him more and more. Love is the apparent form of faith and confidence in some one. In the same way , you have to transfere your faith to Radha and krishn and believe that they are your real friends, relatives and guardians.Who can grace you with real love ,the Divine love. Divine love naturally weakens your material mind and fills it with devotional love.
Attachments persist due to the hope of getting pleasure or love from an object.Hope is nothing but a desire , which is due to the absence of real love, That real love is Divine love.
Lust and love are two totally opposite feelings.The desire to constantly give is Love,and the process of give and take is business. Wherever there is any desire to beg from one's beloved , it is not love. Where there is an ever -increasing desire to give ,even after having given everything ,that is love.Hence , no man in the world can love in the true sense of the term, because each and everyone is selfish. Each one desires happiness of the self, therefore there is always a constant longing to recieve and not give. And selfish love comes to an end. This kind of love decreases, whereas Divine love increases , and is pure.The desire to please our lord Krishn alone is love.
There is Devotional Divine love consciousness,the devotee's state.
The other is Ultimate Divine love consciousness ,the saints state { Graced by Krishn].
Love is the supreme power which governs all other Divine powers. That is why when a saint attains Love , is worshipped by other Divine personalities. One should seek the Love and not only vision.Love includes vision but vision does not include love.
The ignorant wish for worldly pleasures,the wise think of getting perfect peace and liberation from world miseries,the wiser ones desire the Divine -vision of God Head personality and the wisest are those who choose to recieve Divine - love